tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1312561284516691861.post3694784475607433150..comments2023-10-29T11:05:18.049+01:00Comments on i can write uninhibited: ...a christmas feeling.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13049764607472498499noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1312561284516691861.post-41842559102870824892008-12-23T02:40:00.000+01:002008-12-23T02:40:00.000+01:00So I'm back!!Now I discovered that teebay and I ki...So I'm back!!<BR/>Now I discovered that teebay and I kinda have similar personalities which kinda means I'll agree with some things he says. But regardless, I'll put my 2 cents in the bucket.<BR/><BR/>You don't whine about stupid stuff by the way. I gave you the honest blogger award for a reason.<BR/><BR/>Naijadenzel .... what can I say. You marked your territory and put him outside of it. Now you got the butterflies and you wish you didn't push him so far away.<BR/><BR/>My head is not quite in the stable state anymore so I may not make real sense here and I'd rather not say nonsense.<BR/><BR/>I'll say something though. Don't ever, ever see your relationship with someone the way your parents had or have theirs (this applies if your parents relationship isn't as good as you wish it could be, since I don't know, I'll stop personalizing it). Just because parents make mistakes does not mean we will make mistakes. We are NOT our parents. Yes, we do learn from them but we don't have to live how they did. You have your own course to set and if you need to change maps and compass to set it right, do it!!! Chasing a guy away because he looks like your dad is not right. You may not like it but what if that's God's way of making your relationship with your dad stronger?? Doing that is you just hurting yourself more and who knows, you may be chasing that someone.<BR/>You can't do without God and trust me, you can't do without that someone either. God talks about two becoming one - flesh of my flesh, bone of my bone??? You need God and that someone. Now you definitely need God to guide you in the right direction, not point you, guide you. You can't link everything to God though. You can't push people away for some reasons and think God said no. Nope, you said no. <BR/>I'm a religious guy so I'll say I know what I'm saying. I won't preach to you though.<BR/><BR/>You have a huge fence around you that you need to bring down a notch. Ask God to help you with that. You have so much love to give, don't hold back. Love is a beautiful thing. It is painful when it's lost but guess what? The pain makes you stronger. You're not being strong though. You're on the defensive. You've got to go and fight. <BR/><BR/><BR/>I'm going to insert my disclaimer now, lol.<BR/><BR/>Disclaimer:<BR/>*If I've misunderstood you, I apologize. My comments are just what I PERSONALLY feel about this post.Invisiblehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07941971803169814680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1312561284516691861.post-11893341288207609122008-12-22T14:16:00.000+01:002008-12-22T14:16:00.000+01:00listened to themits touching!thanks for the advice...listened to them<BR/>its touching!<BR/>thanks for the adviceAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13049764607472498499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1312561284516691861.post-63460210573908583182008-12-22T12:53:00.000+01:002008-12-22T12:53:00.000+01:00@teebaynot yetthanks for the adviceand you are not...@teebay<BR/>not yet<BR/>thanks for the advice<BR/>and you are not naija denzel<BR/>he's just a random guy in my office<BR/>and i have given myself till<BR/>xmas to sort myself out<BR/><BR/>@rayo<BR/>thanks <BR/>you are so sweetAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13049764607472498499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1312561284516691861.post-74506076224888415092008-12-22T01:04:00.000+01:002008-12-22T01:04:00.000+01:00i wont comment? i will o. i didnt abandon you. i'l...i wont comment? i will o. i didnt abandon you. i'll brb with proper comment.Invisiblehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07941971803169814680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1312561284516691861.post-34654204067283912432008-12-21T15:34:00.000+01:002008-12-21T15:34:00.000+01:00hey, did u listen to dem songs?hey, did u listen to dem songs?teebayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14453972516559620591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1312561284516691861.post-12397108062129394732008-12-21T15:19:00.000+01:002008-12-21T15:19:00.000+01:00hmm... tish tish tishi tot i had issues.. lolwanna...hmm... tish tish tish<BR/><BR/>i tot i had issues.. lol<BR/><BR/>wanna ask u smtins,<BR/><BR/>are u scared of smtin?<BR/>scared of openin up2 ppl,<BR/>u dont like lookin stupid, feelin compromised or vulnerable in any way.<BR/>u dont like the feelin of not being in control.<BR/>yet u discover most of the time u're victim to ur emotions and stuff.<BR/><BR/>i think u need to knw that ppl have to annoy u, they hav to get on ur nerves, not cos of any particular reason, but cos dats wat ppl do. get on other ppls nerves.<BR/>am sure there r a bunch of ppl who want to snap at u too, who want to kick u whr it hurts n stuff like dat. dats cos its all a vicious cycle really!<BR/><BR/>like now i hold myself back from writin stuff dat'll make ur head pop :)<BR/><BR/>u need to knw wen ppl do stuff, its not their fault, really they cant help being d way they r (annoying). so with dat at d bak of ur mind, u need to take it easy on or with dem all. wen they step on ur toes, u appologise to them and wen next they're comin ur way, get ur feet outa their way.<BR/><BR/>wen u feel the way u do, u carry a weight dat no one else does. dat weight affects a lot of stuff, like ur health and d way u see ppl n things (like naijadenzel. which by d way i tot i was! neways i cant share d title). dat could be dangerous to u.<BR/><BR/>u knw wat, i think u need a coquette. to deal u sm blows, make u do stuff u neva done b4, make u open up n stuff. lolteebayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14453972516559620591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1312561284516691861.post-20139661313028745692008-12-20T19:46:00.000+01:002008-12-20T19:46:00.000+01:00awww, i hope u get sorted out, i know that feeling...awww, i hope u get sorted out, i know that feeling of losing ur self esteem and feeling lyk everyone's against u. u'll pull thru and teebay's ryt abt finding a middle ground between ur head and ur heartRayohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10724898765410497224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1312561284516691861.post-70688030319576983242008-12-19T11:42:00.000+01:002008-12-19T11:42:00.000+01:00ooooh u got butterflies in ur tummy.... (lol)we se...ooooh u got butterflies in ur tummy.... (lol)<BR/><BR/>we see people and we fall for them, its called chemistry...<BR/>our beliefs and personal principles hold us back from turning it into biology ;-) (know wat i mean??)<BR/>dont hold back or run (or in ur case chase ppl away)<BR/>a day lost is a day u can never get back. use every second wisely cos it counts<BR/><BR/>if u dont do wat ur heart tells u, u'l feel really bad bout it in future (near future)<BR/><BR/>three months ago ur head was in charge, today ur hearts kickin it.<BR/>find a middle ground for both (use ur belief and principles)<BR/><BR/>:-) <BR/><BR/>hey heard dis really beautiful songs by james morrison- one last chance and you give me smthing.<BR/>beautiful, really! listen to them.teebayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14453972516559620591noreply@blogger.com