i made me be honest and ...

interesting too...
 i wasn't going to blog about this on my open blog but i decided to... cos i have the guts to live my best life everyday so read gutsy abi, lol I Believe...

Just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other.
 (me and who for God's sake, i never argue, i think that is totally fake but how do you learn something you have not learned up till now) 

 And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.
(i don't want to make any comparisons, my sister believes that you have the worst arguements with the ones you love; a sign of passion (hmmm! my sis is barely a teenager o) you don't fight at all and she believes that there is manipulation going on somehow, i believe her, i don't know why) I Believe...

We don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change. 
 (tisha and d-gal; never knew her, selfish 'binch') I Believe..

No matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
  (boomboom n tisha) I Believe...

True friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.. The same goes for true love.
 (liza2k n tisha) I Believe..

You can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
(trust the wrong person, but you don't have to hurt forever, you can let go and let GOD) I Believe...

That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
(not on God's timetable, sha, His time is best if you have hind sight, yeah if u can see the end from the beginning...) I Believe...

You should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
(like i could ever do that, i touch the people i am close to, forever making contact with them, hugs, touch, whatever meen 'blush', i don't know if i blush again, i think i am too jaded but then again...) I Believe...

You can keep going long after you think you can't.
  (His grace is sufficient, and He is always there, aside from him i think i would have fallen apart in 2000... but then He always has a plan Hmmmph! now just for me to shift and align with His plans) I Believe...,

 We are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
(we can decide what we need to do and live with it joyfully) I Believe...

Either you control your attitude or it controls you.
(this is the hardest i have had to fight to maintain a good attitude, the month of july and God is proud of me, i am proud of me too 'smile' though not at all times, i nearly lost it many times because i can be mouthy!) I Believe...

Money is a lousy way of keeping score.
(i am a dangerous billionaire, for real! i mean really cleanly rich (as opposed to filthy rich, lol)) I Believe...

My best friend and I, can do anything, or nothing and have the best time.
(The Holy ghost, i am not that close to any human being right now, Now if i can just discipline myself to spend time with Him consistently... 'make me' Lord i pray as in not force me o! just give me the right desires!) I Believe...

Sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up. (yep, i have had ravens feed me severally and people i expect to support me stab in the back so it just underlines the fact that the heart of man is desperately wicked; it just matter who is controlling the Man's/Woman's heart, and women did me more harm than men... so its not like i am biased against men ...or women for that matter, i just let them be (sigh!)) I Believe... 


Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
(oops, i think i am mature sha, no one will convince otherwise, i am teachable sha in many things) I Believe..

It isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others. sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.
(forgave myself before i dated my ex, dante laughed at this) I Believe....

No matter how badly your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
(you can always pick yourself up and make yourself happy and i have never really being heart-broken anyway, my FB profile calls it "careful heart" (i am 007, the female version, the one that gets away time and again)) I Believe...

Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but. we are responsible for who we become.
(The world will know that someone came and made her mark in the sands of time which is some 60-70 years away) I Believe...

Two people can look at the same thing and see something totally different.
(don't try me, i can paint nine different pictures from one scenario) I Believe...

Your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
(some good and some bad, i want to be the good influence in other peoples lives, overcome evil and be the good, no matter how difficult it seems) I Believe...

Even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.
(That's me, the one who the devil can't get, always willing to give a helping hand, my alter ego has been trying to make me a little harder and a little nasty so people cannot take advantage of me but i just don't give up, i went for a job interview and said i was resilient in my soft voice, they don't , know the half of it) I Believe...

Credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
(I will live life with passion and make my world know that i am around and called to serve and unstoppable.) 

 I Believe... in you

(Yes thats me, i give people the hope that they can live again and have hope, Christ in me the hope of glory, you can be anything you want to be, the power is in your hands and on your tongue, never be satisfied with the ordinary) 

 Where is invisible? Tisha is back big time!

i refuse to judge you

judging other people is something i don't do and i am not planning to start judging others now. as an adolescent and a teenager, never judged people by the things they do, the way they dress or act and i will not be starting anytime soon i do not absolutely do not talk about people in a vindictive and damaging manner it makes a person very small in my eyes. i always would rather see from the point of view of the person wearing the painful shoes. when it comes to bad gal, rapists, murderers, wife beaters serail killers, stalkers, pimps and self righteous folks, loan sharks and participating passive observers i need the grace of God to not call them what they are i usually just out them in a mix and call that mix the world these are people bound to fulfill the devil's purpose by choice. i don't know why i always have this strong desire to change the world well, if Obama can, i guess i can too! besides God has said i can do all things At many ppoints i am at my wits end because the only way to change the world is by changing people and that has been one of my greatest challenges cos its a near impossible feat to accomplish why cos you can either influence people or not you can't force them i have been told that the only thing to do is to change myself i dare say that i am a world changer that is the only reason i can get up in the morning and keep moving because i know i can make a difference and change someone's life for the better my turf is in believing in people and being a team player if there is a team being accomplished to benefit other people, you can be sure to find me there i believe that God sent His son Jesus If you only know of the wildernesses and scary places he carried me through if you knew how He taught me to let go of my nightmares cos i couldn't sleep everyday for fear, vicious fear that tore at my insides and made my heart beat 200 times faster he is my hiding place and my rock and my sanctifier! i truly believe that in me lies the spirit of a champion one who never says die, whose spirit senses life and every single day i have the privilege of breathing in oxygen (His spirit) i will seize every opportunity that lies before me and do what will live beyond me. i choose to take a chance everyday on life and do something that changes another's world perspective, brings hope and leaves the world a better place i am tired of hearing of different kinda villains in the world i will rather be the hero that the world needs by doing things which proceeed from righteousness