Tuesday, December 9, 2008

He's dating someone else...

Well.
alls well that ends well thanks to this blog, i am not as hurt as i would have been if i did not have a blog well.

Thanks to blogville i am a-okay one of the binches tried to set me up but i am cool with it the other chic came at me like this is my property in my mind "i was like sister i am not interested" the bloke is so so shallow i wish i like put him through hell but its not worth it i would like to think i am more mature than that well, another love interest goes down the drain i have like two new ones on the line but they are sadly lacking in spirituality i wonder if i will ever find a man who listens to God like i do well.

With God, all things are possible 
 ...and i am willing to wait and maybe its because i am baby-faced and i look like a spring chicken but i don't think so i have always believed that whatever is worth doing is worth doing well so another application nearly suitable but not good enough and if you are wondering if it's not out of sour grapes i'll tell you that i have suffered enough from not listening when God speaks i'd just rather listen now ...and one of them is even in church the one who gave me the cheesy line of him being my destiny, talks real good the things that trip me (intelligence more than good looks) 

lol He's worth a trial, i am not attracted though so i want to see how much he wants me i'll seek him out and be his friend and if it doesn't work out, all good cos i'll have gained a friend who is not attracted to me or hating my guts or planning how to break me. 
One who loves me for me and does not want to date me and will not be offended if i tell him that i just want a good friend ... ...and do not want anything more than friendship least for now

13 comments:

  1. Interesting..........
    nice blog, there is nothing like listening to God,
    and letting Him alone lead!

    We will avoid somemany heart aches

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  2. yes
    having trouble obeying
    even some times doubting myself
    but i believe that God means what he said
    and he know tomorrow anyway

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  3. soooooooo true !!!!!!!!!!!! YEA IF HE AINT WITH THE PROGRAMME HE CAN get to stepping....peaaaaaaaaaceeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!
    NEXT! hehe
    p.s: xoxo

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  4. hmmm..

    life! really a funny thing isnt it?
    funny concept..

    brilliant.

    its really as simple as we make it. God gave us control from creation and we still expect him to make decisions for us.

    the last time he hooked smone up, it didnt work out(adam&eve), so he decided to let us find our own perfect half. he that finds a ... finds a good thing!!

    what do u / we really want?
    :-)

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  5. @lady koko
    yes o
    independent lady

    @ doll
    yeah
    thanks just need to tell ma heart who calls the shots
    me who?
    lol

    @teebay
    you are amazingly naive.
    i don't know what i want
    alli know is what God soesn't want
    so i am not allowed to make my own decisions for me.

    you can't understand i hearu saying
    fine! leave it that way.

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  6. oooooohhhhh i think i struck a cord with tish. :-)

    hold ur horses man!

    naive?
    iv been known to be a lot of things, but naive?? mmm nope doesnt gel.

    ok lets see. naive is wen u show lack of experience, wisdom or judgement or u're ready to bliv wat u r told. hmm

    OR in ur case

    wen ur head and ur heart r @ war,
    wen u get all academic and rational about the things of the heart (and in sm cases of d spirit)
    or wen u seem to like smone and hate 'em @ d same time, or sm like dat. (am confused)
    or wen u think ur strong and ur not without even knowing it (now dats ...)

    but neways, d good thing about it is dat it happens to all of us yeah!

    I THINK, u need to knw wat u want (dats wat having dominion and taking charge of wat uv been given is. Gen 1:26&28), commit it into Gods hands and then pursue it. dont sit, dont wait or get rational, dont second guess. JUST ACT. u will stumble and mayb fall, but ul get back up stronger i think.

    u need to dream, seek, ask, desire, with faith like that of little children asking their father and confident he will provide.

    and oh!
    dont go lookin for smone who is perfect and 'll love u for u,
    instead be the perfect person, and love dat person (guy) for who he really is.

    with this u wont be wrong at d top of ur voice.

    :-)

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  7. @teebay
    you are an ITK
    even when you may know the meaning, i'll tell you
    I Too Know.
    anyways happy hols
    will be back in the New Year
    2008, here i come!

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  8. thanks for all the yaps.
    you must be having a field day yapping me
    don't care though
    not that i like being yapped
    but whatever!

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  9. awwww... is dat wat u feel bout me???
    :-(

    i think u just hurt my feelings.
    i neva yapped u, did i yap u?
    ok show me whr xactly i yapped u!

    happy hols. hope u got sm more gist wen u get back.

    :-)

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  10. @ teebay
    hope so too
    but it just like all the boring stuff i expect?
    so in 10 days time i'll see what's good that can happen.

    (i have an inklng but i'll just not bother about it, have a sneaky feeling someone... never mind!)

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  11. 2009
    Here i come.
    (i will get it right)

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  12. Wow, Tisha!!! You went off on Teebay and I must say I agree with SOME (not all) of what he said. I won't get into what I don't agree with but I agree with him on this: "I THINK, u need to knw wat u want (dats wat having dominion and taking charge of wat uv been given is. Gen 1:26&28), commit it into Gods hands and then pursue it. dont sit, dont wait or get rational, dont second guess. JUST ACT. u will stumble and mayb fall, but ul get back up stronger i think.

    u need to dream, seek, ask, desire, with faith like that of little children asking their father and confident he will provide.
    "

    I agree with a couple other lil things but I'll leave that.

    If you're waiting for God to point and say there, go, you might be waiting for a long time. You've got to do the work yourself and seek His face as you go along. What you can do is ask Him to let you know asap if you're going the wrong way.

    I'm not insulting or judging your character (you are you and never let anyone bring you down) but I think you need to be a bit more receptive. As in, take things in. I sense you're someone who can get hurt easily by words and if that's the case, you're in for a boat load of hurting. Not just receptive to blogsville comments but also to people. Now, I'm not saying accpet what the dude who's declaring you his destiny's words but take some time to think about what they are saying.

    See, you have a fence up around you because of your past experiences and you've built a very serious fence that you have to tone down.

    This is getting mega long for a comment but just my 2 cents.

    Disclaimer:
    *If I've misunderstood you, I apologize. My comments are just what I PERSONALLY feel about this post.

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